“They took her because my ex showed up at my house and he wasn’t supposed to be there because of the restraining order. It’s not my fault though, what could I do, I didn’t tell him he could come over.” Kara Mclean says as she discusses why Child Protective Services took her first born daughter away from her. She is completely open when it comes to discussing the fact that her child was taken from her though her explanation is vague and opposes what other sources state as the reason her child was placed in foster care. Locals/coworkers who have known Mclean say that her daughter, Aria Balis, was taken because her father, Fred Balis, was molesting her and Mclean was turning a blind eye to the situation. However, this was not confirmed by Mclean. Kara has not seen Aria in 2 years but keeps photos of her in her and speaks about her often.
Kara is currently engaged to Stephen Noykos and now has a 3-month-old daughter, Milah Noykos. They live in a one bedroom apartment in Shepherd, Mich. Kara works at a local diner as a hostess, where she met Aaron Ginowsky, a coworker who is currently living with the family after losing his home in a divorce. Though Aaron can not contribute to the household financially he helps the couple by giving them rides because neither can afford to own a car. Stephen works a few days out of the week but does not have a steady job at the moment, when he isn’t working he spends his days searching for ways to gain income. Kara works afternoons and is always eager to return to Milah, who rarely leaves her arms when she is home.
Many people dream of shifting their lives course; changing careers, relocating or even just learning a new skill or hobby. Fantasies of sudden life transitions fuel the daydreams of adults everywhere but it seems to be something that people rarely act upon. However, there are always some that decide to veer off the beaten path they’ve safely circled for years and embark on a new journey.
Urban Dreams Farm is the result of one woman who decided to withdraw from the corporate world, leave the city and turn her lifelong dream into a reality. Emma Urban started the farm, located in Riverdale, Michigan, in 2008 following the tragic lost of her husband. Urban Dreams is a fiber farm specializing in harvesting from alpaca and a small number of sheep and goats. Emma grew up on a farm and always had a love of fiber. Her first experience buying a sheep, shearing and using a drop spindle occurred during her teen years. Urban began the farm with a starter herd of four female alpacas and after a couple years she learned that males yielded more fiber without as much of an investment. The herd quickly grew to sixty alpacas but after another couple years it proved to be too taxing so she downsized to about 40 alpaca. Which she currently has along with Angora goats, Angora rabbits and two peacocks. The farm is also home to a few chickens, a handful of barn cats and five dogs, three of which are used to protect and herd the alpaca. When asked about her favorite part of living and working on her own farm Urban replied, “The freedom to make choices about how to spend my time. A big part of that is enjoying the critters.”.
Emma rents a small house on her property to a married couple who are also in the business of shearing and farm animal care. There are a few days each spring in which the three of them dedicate to shearing the animals. ” Shearing days are always very stressful because it is what I work for all year.” Urban says. The harvested fibers are woven into fabric and felt that Urban uses to make socks, winter wear, purses and other products to sell.